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SAT (Scholastic Aptitude Test – тест схоластических способностей) – стандартизированный экзамен для проверки навыков критического мышления, который необходимо сдать для поступления в университеты США и Канады. Прим. ред.
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Шерил Сэндберг (род. 1969) – американская предпринимательница, работающая COO в Facebook с 2008 года, с июня 2012 года – член совета директоров компании, первая женщина в совете директоров компании за историю существования Facebook. Прим. ред.
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